STYLETHREAD -- LET'S TALK SHOP!

Oh D, I am crying. I can't imagine going through this and I am so very, very sorry that you are having to experience it. I really have no words except to say that you are constantly in my thoughts and as bad as this is, I hope it's as bad as it gets. I hope you can be spared any more negative news.

I think you have made a very wise choice on the additional breast removal. With your family history, it seems like you're better off avoiding even the smallest risks. You are making smart choices - though certainly not happy ones - and I'm glad you are able to at least get through this intellectually. I know that emotionally will be another matter. You know that we are all here for you and willing to be your shoulders, and we'll provide any comfort we can.

You have my utmost respect and admiration. I know your path isn't easy right now, but I truly hope it's all positive news from this point forward.

*big bear hug*

FWIW, I probably would have made the same decision as you have. I, too, think you're incredibly strong and brave but I'm not sure if saying that helps you. If it does, I'm grateful. If it doesn't, maybe it will mean something to you someday that you've inspired a whole group of women on a website that celebrates women. I'd say more but I'm getting too emotional. My thoughts are with you, Kris.

(((hugs)))

Wow, the surgery is really soon. I don't think you're making a rash decision at all by having both breasts removed. Especially with your family's history. Like you said, isn't life worth more than your breasts?

I'll be thinking of you on the 22nd and hoping everything goes as well as it can.

You are very courageous for the decision you are making and incredibly strong.  I admire you ability to rationalize this issue during this emotional time.

I have had friends go through the same breast surgery and it turned out wonderful for them.  I wish you the same.

Give yourself the best care and be strong.

D- my grandmother had a mastectomy as well. She has and always will be a strong beautiful woman to me.

You are very brave. Stay strong sweetie.

i haven't posted in quite a long while, but i've popped in on occasion to quickly "catch up" with everyone. i just wanted to let you know that you and your mother been in my thoughts. i'm truly sorry that you have to endure this on top of your mother's battle. you're very strong and incredibly brave to share your ordeal with all of us. you might not realize it, but by telling your story through little updates you are educating each and every one of us and they serve as a reminder of how important early detection is. i'm confident that you've made the right decision — you can feel good about that. one step at a time, we are all thinking about your and your family.

Your grace and clear headedness through this is nothing short of amazing. You and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers. If their is anything I can do, let me know, I'm not too far away (less than 40 minutes).

-gd

I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said. My heart is broken for you. Will you have to go through chemo or radiation treatments after surgery? I think you made the right decision though I know how hard that had to be for you. {{{{{hugs}}}}}}

I'm praying for you D!  As much as it pains you I think you are making the right decisions so just stay positive and reaffirm these decisions.  Big Hugs.