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Gucci

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I just wanted to let you guys know...


My bf of nearly 7 1/2 years has decided to move out. He has chosen to devote his time 100% to his band, in hopes that they will make it big.


We have decided that we want different things and he can't distribute enough of his his time between the guys, work and us (me and the dogs). He has decided to go and live with the band at the "bandhouse". I really wanted to buy a house but he doesn't feel that he can commit to that and I can't keep just spinning my wheels waiting for him.


So that is that. Thank you so much for your support, I really apppreciate having you girls to lean on.



-- Edited by Metric at 13:28, 2006-12-15

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I am so sorry. You sound very straightforward about it but I'm sure it must be difficult. I applaud you for recognizing that you don't want to spend more of your life waiting for him to want what you want.

As hard as it is, ultimately you'll be happier following your own path - with or without someone else- in the long run. I hope you are okay and please know you can always share with us when you need support or a listening ear. *hugs*

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Oh, wow.  I'm so sorry Metric.   


Hugs to you. 



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oh metric, i'm so sorry! you sound like you're handling this really well, but i'm sure it's not easy. good luck with everything, we're here when you need us!

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I am really sorry to hear your news. 


((hugs to you))



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Stay strong.

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Chanel

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I'm so sorry! Stay strong!

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Wow, that must be incredibly hard for you.

I am really impressed that you are willing to put your needs first, and not settle for a life that you dont want.

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i'm so sorry... good luck and please take care of yourself.

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AllieGurl wrote:

Wow, that must be incredibly hard for you.

I am really impressed that you are willing to put your needs first, and not settle for a life that you dont want.

Ditto, I have so much respect for you.  But I know it must feel awful.  Like the other ladies said, we're here for ya.

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Oh Metric, I'm so sorry to hear this.  Like the other girls have said, I'm very proud of you for putting your needs first, but I'm sure it's still hard.  Please keep us posted - we are here for you.  ((((Hugs))))

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Gucci

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I'm really sorry.  Hang in there.

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Chanel

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Oh, man - that sucks big time. I'm so sorry Metric. I know how hard it is to walk away from a relationship that's lasted so long (not that long but 5 years for me). It's a catch-22 almost. On one hand you've invested so much for so long but on the other hand why waste more time? It's a really tough decision and I admire you for it.


Vent here as much as you want. We can all sympathize and understand at least a little bit. I hope with this decision, your load feels at least a little lighter. (((hugs))) Whatever you do, don't listen to the radio - a little tip from me to you.


(((big hugs)))



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big hugs metric.  I know it must be really sad and lonely right now but stay strong and post on here whenever you need to.

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((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))) so sorry to hear this but iam glad you put your needs first, We are here if you need to talk.Stay strong and just remember it could be best that you and him worked it now and instead of  after you invested a house and maybe marriage later.    



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I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say, but I wish I could just give you a big hug

AllieGurl wrote:

Wow, that must be incredibly hard for you.

I am really impressed that you are willing to put your needs first, and not settle for a life that you dont want.


I agree. I'm afraid I wouldn't have this kind of strength. I admire you, even though right now it may seem like it hurts too much

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Marc Jacobs

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OMG, I'm so sorry Metric.  Like the others said, I admire your strength! Stay busy and positive.

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I'm really sorry sweetie! {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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Gucci

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Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that, Metric. I wish you the best, stay strong. We're all here for you.

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I am sorry that it had to come to this extreme, but I am happy that you are able to look at the big picture and make sense of the situation and the positives that will come from it.  I truly believe that in a situation such as yours if it is meant to be then you will be together one day.  You could also find the man of your dreams, buy a beautiful house together and have a great yard for the pups to play in.  Best of luck during this time I am sure the pups will take good care of their momma when she is sad.

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