I am so sorry, and my thoughts are with you {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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"Deep down you may still be that same great guy I used to know. But it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you" Rachel Dawes, Batman Begins
Oh sweetie - I'm so so so sorry for you and your husband. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Please let me know if you need anything at all - we're here for you.