I broke up with the guy I've been seeing since January on Saturday (twice - funny story). It feels so strange to be completely, totally single again. I haven't been single for longer than week for almost a year. Now an ex is trying to be a booty call, but I'm done with dating/relationships/etc for a while. I need a breather, and time to forget what idiots guys are.
I just wanted to say good for you. It really seems like you have a good head on your shoulders and reading what you wrote sounds exactly the way I feel right now, and its nice to know there are other people out there that don't HAVE to have a guy around them.
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"Deep down you may still be that same great guy I used to know. But it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you" Rachel Dawes, Batman Begins
Haha, yes! A dating ban support group, just what the doctor ordered. I do enjoy being single, but it's too easy to either fall back into dating one of the exes, or to be wooed by flattery and date someone new. How do I re-activate the unavailable vibe? Too bad there isn't a perfume for that...
i know!! im such a flirt, im having to learn to tone it down. its also such habit to scope for cute guys everywhere i go. i am now trying to not make the "im interested" eye contact and when i see a cute guy i just tell myself that he is probably a jerk. not exactly what i need, but i do feel more comfortable talking to guys because im less concerned if they are interested in me.
A no-boys support group is great, I love it, this is a must!
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"Deep down you may still be that same great guy I used to know. But it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you" Rachel Dawes, Batman Begins