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Karina


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i think vinny and i have to get married ASAP


i just noticed i am getting taken out way too much from my paycheck for having him covered under my domestic partner



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I have a friend who got "married" about 8 months BEFORE her real wedding.


She does hair (and didnt have insurance) and she got sick and really needed her husbands insuance. So they secretly eloped to the courthouse so that she could get treated for her illness under his policy.


They didn't tell anyone.. not even their parents.. Then 8 months later, they still had their HUGE beautiful wedding that they had been planning for years.


It was actually pretty romantic for them.. that no one knew their "little" secret.


Just wanted to share...



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blubirde


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JoceyBaby23 wrote:


I have a friend who got "married" about 8 months BEFORE her real wedding. She does hair (and didnt have insurance) and she got sick and really needed her husbands insuance. So they secretly eloped to the courthouse so that she could get treated for her illness under his policy. They didn't tell anyone.. not even their parents.. Then 8 months later, they still had their HUGE beautiful wedding that they had been planning for years. It was actually pretty romantic for them.. that no one knew their "little" secret. Just wanted to share...


That's always what I've wanted to do if I ever got married. It just seems sooo romantic. I think you should do it Karina!


But can I just say that when I first started reading your post I thought you were going to say you were pregnant again! I got all nervous when I clicked on it. How weird is that?



-- Edited by blubirde at 15:48, 2006-02-17

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Drew


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Might as well be sooner than later.  Let us know.

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Ally S


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Honestly, I thought you were going to say you were pregnant again too!!!

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Ally S wrote:

Honestly, I thought you were going to say you were pregnant again too!!!

I totally did too! 


I think it would be so cool if you guys got married now and then had your wedding later.  Do it!!!  Do it!!! 



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HeatherLynn


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I thought you were going to say you were pregnant again, as well.  I say go ahead and get married now and have the wedding later.  Sounds like so much fun!!

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JoceyBaby23 wrote:

I have a friend who got "married" about 8 months BEFORE her real wedding. She does hair (and didnt have insurance) and she got sick and really needed her husbands insuance. So they secretly eloped to the courthouse so that she could get treated for her illness under his policy. They didn't tell anyone.. not even their parents.. Then 8 months later, they still had their HUGE beautiful wedding that they had been planning for years. It was actually pretty romantic for them.. that no one knew their "little" secret. Just wanted to share...
I have friends that did the same exact thing! 

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Karina


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oh i wish!!! i want another little one.


 


anyway - they are taking out $244 a month for having him as a domestic partner, plus $99 a paycheck for our family insurance plan.  my HR benefits person told me i would bypass that fee once we are married. WTF?!



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blubirde wrote:

But can I just say that when I first started reading your post I thought you were going to say you were pregnant again! I got all nervous when I clicked on it. How weird is that? -- Edited by blubirde at 15:48, 2006-02-17


that's exactly what I thought!!!! very curious.... and I think a little wedding that no one knows about before the real wedding is sooo romantic too. And I love elopements...

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so Karina, are you going to get your marriage license early?

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HeatherLynn


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detroit wrote:

so Karina, are you going to get your marriage license early?
Ya I definitely think you should.  Keep us updated!!

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Karina


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HeatherLynn wrote:

detroit wrote: so Karina, are you going to get your marriage license early? Ya I definitely think you should.  Keep us updated!!
yes probably.  can you guys help me? i don't know what i need to do.

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well, what district court are you in? it's the same place you go to to pay for a ticket.  call the district court and find out what you need to do.  I think I actually called our City Hall to ask - they directed me to contact the district court.  Things might be different where you live, so maybe you'll want to contact your City Hall first?  Once you have figured out who you need to go to for the marriage license, they will set up an appointment for you to come in together. I think you'll also need your birth certificates.

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Ally S


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I think you have to have blood tests too in NJ but they will tell you that when you call. I think City Hall is the place to call first, that was were friends of our's went to for their civil ceremony.


 


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well, what district court are you in? it's the same place you go to to pay for a ticket.  call the district court and find out what you need to do.  I think I actually called our City Hall to ask - they directed me to contact the district court.  Things might be different where you live, so maybe you'll want to contact your City Hall first?  Once you have figured out who you need to go to for the marriage license, they will set up an appointment for you to come in together. I think you'll also need your birth certificates.





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Karina


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how will all of this affect my church ceremony?

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