i am stuck in my room, a prisoner of my own house. the roomies are in the kitchen eating- i don't even want to see him, the guy has not spoken to me since dec. 15- no apology or anything. i'm not going to be the first to talk. they live and go about as they please, its their house and i'm merely the "tenant". i was scared to go to the bathroom even because its past the kitchen. i have my groceries in bags in my room- i ran into the kitchen while they were walking the dog and dumped my stuff in bags and ran back to my room- so i can take it to the other place later and have food to eat there. i haven't eaten a meal in for two weeks. i hope they go to their room soon so i can start moving my stuff out- i want to just walk in and out as i please packing up my car, but i can't. i know it might sound like i'm crazy and i should just be like f*ck them, do whatever, but i'm so uncomfortable here its ridiculous. i don't want to cross paths with him because i KNOW he won't say hi, he'll just stare me down. i wanna move my stuffff- i hope they go away all of tomorrow evening so i can move the bulk of my stuff- i'm usually at work til 7 so i only have the evenings and its already getting late!!
Aww lynnie... I feel so bad for you. When is your moving date again? At least you have that to look forward to, right? And in all honesty, I think I would probably handle the situation the same way you are, I usually try to avoid confrontation etc... But In my head im thinking that you should just go about your business and if he says something to you, just be polite and mature, I acutally think that annoys people more! I mean after you move out, will you ever see these people, or that GUY again? If not, you have nothing to lose, except not having to sneak around the place where you live and pay rent! I don't like to hear that my ST girl lynnie has to be a prisoner in your own room...
Just keep thinking positive and looking forward to your new roomies :)
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poor lynnie! i'm so sorry, just count the days and get the heck out. a part of me wishes we could pay this guy back somehow, something that would just give you the internal satisfaction you'd need to just smirk at him when he's trying to intimidate you by staring or whatever...but i can't think of anything...
i'm there til the 31st at the latest- but i already have my other place, so in theory, i could move out asap. but they're there, in the living room...sitting there...keeping me from going to the bathroom, from eating my dinner...from being comfortable.
you poor thing! i once had a roomate that tried to steal from my room, i had put a lock on my door (thank goodness i did) and i notice he was trying to break into it! plus someone told me he was doing it when they were there! some men are jerks! i hope you can get out of there a.s.a.p!
I'm sorry you have to feel so uncomfortable. Just a few more days... then you're out. Bright side: you get to spend the rest of your time in your nice, cute room. Enjoy it while you still have it, pack fast, get out!
I hope the time goes by fast, and I hope that jerk goes away soon so you can be comfortable.