I actually just wrote a list like this down in class.
1. That I'm not pregnant. This is highly unlikely and my period is always crazy, but I worry every time.
2. That I get good grades this semester.
3. That my study abroad works out like I want it to.
4. That I get over my boy.
5. That my boy works on my study abroad program next year, which he is considering (this would actually probably be a bad thing, but I can't help hoping for it).
6. That I can stop eating and start working out again.
7. That I will stop being so tense (I've been really tense recently and I'm not sure why).
-A beautiful, happy, white Christmas -That the heating bill doesn't totally kill us this winter, because I refuse to suffer and freeze, even if gas is expensive. I deserve to be comfortable! -That I don't get a letter from my auto insurance company, telling me that my rate has increased b/c I got my first speeding ticket (in 7 years....*sigh*) -That I get to go skiing sometime this winter -That I can stick to my plan of paying off my credit card by February, therefore allowing me to save up for the down payment on a house
To want something long enough to actually work for it and achieve it. I mean, one day, I will be like, "I want to go teach children in Ethiopia," and start researching it and figuring out how to raise the money and everything, but then, 2 days later, I will be like, "Nah, I don't really want to go teach children in Ethiopia." And then, I will decide I want to work 2 jobs for a year and then take a whole year off and live in Mexico or someplace equally warm and inexpensive, but then 2 days later, I will be like, "Nah. I don't really want to work 2 jobs and what would I do when the year in Mexico is over if I gave up my job?" Or I will meet some guy, be all excited about him and then go on 2 dates with him and never want to see him again. I am actually a really hard worker and know if I could just want something more than 2 days in a row, I would be able to achieve it. What is wrong with me?
To fall in love and get married. Or at least to be dating someone I actually really like and who really likes me. I want to reach the point where I am totally comfortable with someone. I am so sick of first dates and wondering if someone is going to call.
To win the BCBG $1000 shopping spree they always have on their website. I must have filled that survey out 100 times in the past few years and I never win.
That my pregnancy remains mostly uneventful other than a beautiful healthy new baby girl at the end. Oh and an easy labor would be nice ...
That the transition to me becoming a SAHM does not cause undue stress on my marriage and our finances. I am so worried that this is going to be a big adjustment.
That my daughter adjusts easily and stay excited once the new baby is here. She's been an only child for 6 years and I worry how she will handle it.
There is so much but these are on my mind a LOT lately.
ETA: I also wish chocolate would stop giving me heartburn since I can not resist the temptation right now!
lindsayp wrote: Christine, if you do traffic school it won't get on your record!!! Trust me, I do this every 19-20 months Yeah, I wanted to do this, but they flat-out refused to let me. Maybe the rules are stricter in MA?
Christine, have you paid your ticket yet? For FH's last ticket, he purposefully overpaid by about $10 so they had to send him a refund check. The checks are good for about 2 years, and as long as you don't cash them, the ticket doesn't go on your record . I don't know if it works forever or just until the check expires though. Anyway, even if it goes on your record when the check expires, at least you're only left with one year of higher insurance instead of 3 .
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Christine wrote: lindsayp wrote: Christine, if you do traffic school it won't get on your record!!! Trust me, I do this every 19-20 months Yeah, I wanted to do this, but they flat-out refused to let me. Maybe the rules are stricter in MA? Christine, have you paid your ticket yet? For FH's last ticket, he purposefully overpaid by about $10 so they had to send him a refund check. The checks are good for about 2 years, and as long as you don't cash them, the ticket doesn't go on your record . I don't know if it works forever or just until the check expires though. Anyway, even if it goes on your record when the check expires, at least you're only left with one year of higher insurance instead of 3 .
that's an urban myth.
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LMonet wrote: Christine wrote: lindsayp wrote: Christine, if you do traffic school it won't get on your record!!! Trust me, I do this every 19-20 months Yeah, I wanted to do this, but they flat-out refused to let me. Maybe the rules are stricter in MA? Christine, have you paid your ticket yet? For FH's last ticket, he purposefully overpaid by about $10 so they had to send him a refund check. The checks are good for about 2 years, and as long as you don't cash them, the ticket doesn't go on your record . I don't know if it works forever or just until the check expires though. Anyway, even if it goes on your record when the check expires, at least you're only left with one year of higher insurance instead of 3 . that's an urban myth.
I agree with Tara. I know in PA, usually traffic school is not an option.
And I have tried the overpaying of the ticket, they mailed me the check (I didnt cash it) and I still got points. Boo-hiss!
Not for us - FH has got a ticket a little over a year ago and we did this. We've even changed insurances since then (so they investigate your records again) and it still isn't on his record - my boss at my old job looked him up to make sure (construction, so she's able to investigate driving records for 'prospective employees'). The check expires next summer, so we'll cash it right before it does, but we'll already be married so our insurance will already have gone waaaay down and we'll be able to handle any slight increase from a ticket.
Maybe it doesn't work everywhere, but it sure has for us!
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