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Chanel

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okay in the post - by nc shopper(bitching) i vented out @ a co- worker- well she did it again - iam at the point where iam fixing to call her on it- but i told my friend i would say anything, but it is really getting to me- and this time- she brought my husband in it- now iam pissed-


my husband is only works part time with a cab- because its not much money and that way he still can get his disabilty check-and he can not do hard labor work and be on his feet- legs alot


in 2000 he had a pace maker- defibrillator and was diagnosed with servere  cardiomyopathy and ventricular arrhythmias and has never been the same since-


why is she in my bussniess and why does she care-


okay so should i keep my mouth shut and give her the almost slient treatment like i have been or should i let her know how i feel??


thanks girls-



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Chanel

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well i guess- i should keep quiet

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kaykay, that is such a hard situation. If you do say something and she *freaks* on you, then you are going to have to deal with her for the rest of the time that the two of you are there.  But if you feel like she would react calmly/well, then you might want to give it a shot.  But keep in mind that it could backlash on you and make you seem like the bad guy, causing problems in the office.  You know?


She probably won't stop talking behind your back and saying rude things to you if you just ignore her.  But honestly, what should you care what she says? She is just being obnoxious and nosy.  Is she ever really going to make a significant impact on your life, i.e. life changing?  If not, which I suppose is the case, then let her keep talking as annoying as that might be. 


I have no idea why she would be talking about you and be all up in your "biz".  She is probably just a pathetic woman who gets her kicks at another person's expense.  It sucks, but there are those people out there. 


I hope that things with her get better.  {{{{{HUGS}}}}}



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Chanel

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thanks so much yes you are right- i guess i needed to hear it from someone else and i was so mad i was seeing red-  but yes let her think what she wants because she does not know me- the real me- thanks again for advice- hugs back xo xo


i guess iam just senstive @ that stuff



-- Edited by kaykay at 22:36, 2005-10-20

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I wouldn't say anything.  She just sounds insecure to me.  Just try REALLY hard to let it roll off your back.  Sorry she's bugging you so bad.

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