I think it's whatever looks good on your particular body type--anything goes! I know that the trendy thing right now is tight tapered, ankle length jeans, but they aren't really that flattering on most people. And as far as rises, again, whatever you are comfortable in, but please, keep the thong and buttcracks hidden from sight.
By Olivia Barker, USA TODAY Waistlines are inching up on hemlines as fashion's barometer. Navel-obscuring in the '80s, they were navel-baring a few years ago, and this fall they're creeping up toward the bellybutton again.
Hipbone-hugging styles still dominate mall racks and high school hallways. But the fashion-forward flock is donning pants and jeans that graze the ribcage, as paraded on recent Fashion Week runways. And the rest of us are realizing that pant choice shouldn't have to dictate underwear choice.
Retailers are responding, not just because higher waists are fashionable but also because consumers are demanding them. Hence, the emergence of "midrise" or "classic rise." In ads and in stores, manufacturers are grouping their wares by rise rather than wash or leg cut.
Emphasizing, let alone offering, a choice in rises is a departure of late. Many makers haven't labeled their jeans "low rise" in years because that was the standard.
These days, Old Navy's four fits sink to "ultra-low waist" and soar to "at waist." Levi's three rises range from sitting "well below natural waist" to "at natural waist." Lee's mass-market rises vary from 8¼ inches to 11½ inches (from crotch to waist), but what sells best is the 10-inch midrise.
The multiplicity of waistband heights suggests "we've entered into a new era in fashion," says Marshal Cohen, chief industry analyst at NPD Fashionworld. "It's no longer about one way, one size, one trend fits all."
Just a few years ago, the jeans dominating the premium market required either a bikini wax or a very long shirt. Those 5½- to 6¼-inch rises are now "out of fashion," declares Diana Tabeshi, the designer behind the new high-end Denim for Immortality. Tabeshi was tired of having to work for what became a too-low rise: "You have to watch where you sit and when you bend down."
Her label's compromise? A choice of two rises, 7½ inches or 8, that are "sexy and sophisticated for today's woman." Stores, she reports, are selling out three months' inventory in three weeks. "That's telling me something."
that's kinda funny because she's soooo not alone. it seems like a common thread among pregnant women to feel so incredibly clueless about fashion after pregnancy. who knew that 9 months could make one feel that way?
anyway, i saw something on a talk show (i think the Today show) and they were showing jeans for new Moms because one lady was complaining about how with the low rise styles, when she bends down to the stroller, pick the kid up, whatever, her crack or underwear shows (sorry, i didn't know how else to word it). unfortunately the only style that i remember is AG jeans (i know that they are known to be higher waisted). she could also try Gap's jeans, i've heard they are getting better. that might be a good alternative if her size will be changing due to baby weight.
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there are tons of skinny jeans out now. in heels i feel that they are more flattering and lengthening than flared jeans. however, flared styles are a bit more forgiving.