STYLETHREAD -- LET'S TALK SHOP!

Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
stylethread site home page -> stylethread forum -> relationships -> Another update on my situation...
Post Info TOPIC: Another update on my situation...
gingembre1


Kate Spade

Status: Offline
Posts: 1116
Date:
Another update on my situation...
Permalink Closed

I am a confused person. I had 2 great evenings with J.J. this weekend. He was fun, affectionate, sweet, and he's becoming more talkative. Oh, AND he REALLY wanted me to hang out with him all day Saturday and go over to his friends' house that evening to hang out with them.

Saturday I went and met Salsa boy for coffee. It was the first time we ever really talked, as the other 2 times we were dancing. I was prepared to not like him much, but of course, he's great. The only problem (PLEASE don't be offended if you're Catholic!!) is he's a devout Catholic. My dad's family is devout Catholic, and their psycho-ness has made me wary of dating Catholics. Plus, my mom has had a really hard time with my dad's family. But besides that, he's great. Very respectful, seems really sweet, didn't try to push for a kiss or anything. And wow, he's really cute.

So I'm not really sure where either of those two situations will be going, but I have a feeling that I'll end up with JJ. But Salsa boy makes me feel like a lady. I think I'll continue with both of them for the moment. Am I a bad person?

__________________

http://doseofginger.blogspot.com/
crystal


Kate Spade

Status: Offline
Posts: 1269
Date:
Permalink Closed

you are so not a bad person for dating more than one guy!  that's what dating is all about!  live it up, girl, sounds like u r having fun.  oh, and as for salsa guy being catholic, i wouldn't worry about it.  i'm a devout catholic (not sure what ur def. of devout is..) as well & most people wouldn't even know it.  i don't shove it down people's throats, but i know there are people who do.  i totally understand why u would be wary, but i don't think u need to be.  most of us are pretty normal!

__________________
blubirde


Chanel

Status: Offline
Posts: 4845
Date:
Permalink Closed

I don't think you're a bad person at all for dating two guys - especially two great guys. Consider yourself lucky!

And just because you might be more comfortable (at this point) with JJ doesn't necessarily mean he's the right one to choose. Familiarity is an easy thing to fall back on, even if it's not the best thing. It masks a lot of other things.

I say keep going out with both of them and getting to know both of them. You'll figure out which one you like better as time goes on. As for the Catholic thing, I wouldn't worry about it. You're not marrying him (at least not right away ) so it's not really something worth worrything with until it's necessary, if that makes sense.

Keep us posted!

__________________
http://dailypointers.blogspot.com/
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
 
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.
stylethread site home page -> stylethread forum -> relationships -> Another update on my situation...
Tweet this page Post to Digg Post to Del.icio.us


Create your own FREE Forum
Report Abuse 		Powered by ActiveBoard