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Karina · Chanel

RE: Update again: I think I might be a bad person, but

shopgirl82 · Chanel

Karina wrote:

Oh fuck her. Seriously. She needs to get off her immature bullshit. (Sorry, I'm hormonal LOL)

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. i seriously laughed out loud when i read that. that's how i am going to be when i'm pregnant! that's so great, and great advice, i agree.

let us know how the date goes!

blubirde · Chanel

Karina wrote:

Andrea Julia wrote: Yay! He called and we are going out tomorrow night! Now I just have to figure out what to do about M. I don't really want to think about that right now though. Oh fuck her. Seriously. She needs to get off her immature bullshit. (Sorry, I'm hormonal LOL)

I'm not particularly hormonal and I agree 100%. I already told you what I think AJ but seriously - go have a fab time and screw your friend. She's being ridiculous.

scarlett · Marc Jacobs

yes, i second that! go have a great time and screw your friend. maybe she's really not that great of a friend anyway. she should want you to be happy. she had no real claim on this guy and has no right to act this way.

one idea: since she sounds so immature, i would guess part of her enjoys this drama. she probably likes fighting with you over a guy, in a weird way. so the more attention you give her, the more she might act out over it.

kenzie · Chanel

AJ, you seriously just need to go out with this guy and not worry about her. Go out, have fun and who knows, you might have met someone who you want to keep around!

sephorablue · Marc Jacobs

am jumping in late on this one, but definitely... she is being immature... you have no obligation to stay away from a guy based on that one remark she made to you, when she has never dated or been involved with him and you had no advance warning. It would be one thing if you'd known for a while that she had a big crush on him, but for her to tell you she likes him out of nowhere, only after you'd already been talking to him... nah. you are not out of line at all. let us know how the date goes!

esquiress · Marc Jacobs

wahoooo so excited!! keep us posted!!

Karina · Chanel

Andrea Julia wrote:

Yay! He called and we are going out tomorrow night! Now I just have to figure out what to do about M. I don't really want to think about that right now though.

HOW'D IT GO?!?!?!?!?!!?

splash · Kenneth Cole

Have fun with the boy!!

Just to agree with what others have said, I think that your friend is being extreme. As beachgirl's story demonstrates, there are times when you do need to stay away from friends' crushes, but in this case, she had no particular reason for that, and she wasn't even clear about saying anything.
For future, why don't you explain how you define which boys are off limits, and then ask her to, and agree on some level that works for both of you. It sounds silly, but I've had to do this with someone, and I think it can prevent potential issues like this one.