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killa


Dooney & Bourke

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You'd think since I've been through breakups before, I would learn how to cope.

My bf and I just broke up after 1.5 years because we just realized that we have different goals. We are both almost 30 and he is just immature compared to what I want. He is financially unstable, doesn't own a car and is just not ready to settle down. He loves me and wants to be with me, but I am so impatient! I am financially stable and totally ready to buy a house and start building my life with someone

It is really hard because we have love for each other.

Sometimes love just ain't enough.

Thoughts??



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Dizzy


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I took the road you're turning down, and trust me - you're doing the right thing. I married someone who told me he just needed a little bit of time to get his act together, and um, six years after we met he was still working on it. Doesn't make him a bad person, but believe me, if I could do it over, I'd wait until he got his life cleaned up FIRST, then maybe date him.

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I'm sorry! Breakups are so hard, aren't they? Especially when the relationship ends not for lack of love or feelings but other factors. Those are the worst. It's like Dizzy said though - good thing you made your decision now instead of waiting and wasting more of your precious time.


Two pieces of advice: keep yourself as busy as possible & do NOT listen to the radio. (Every song on the radio is designed to make newly single people want to shoot themselves. Trust me on this one!)


I hope you feel better soon!



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killa


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Thanks for the kind & reassuring words!

We're still talking, but we know we can't be together.
Sad.

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