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Andrea Julia


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I was out at a bar with friends on Saturday night and I was talking to this guy.  He wasn't my type or anything, but when he asked for my number, I said yes.  I figured maybe he was fun to hang out with and I really wanted to move on back to my friends.  Also, he didn't seem creepy yet.  A little bit after that, I start talking with one of my friend's guy friends who I had never met until Saturday night.  He is cute and I DO like him.  I then forget about that other guy.  We ended up going to another bar and the creepy guy shows up.  I talk to him for a few minutes then go back to my group and talking to the cute guy.  At that time, I thought it was a total coincidence.  It wasn't until this morning when I started thinking otherwise.  I mean, the bar is 15 minutes away.  It wasn't like it was a row of bars and it was next door.


When we left the second bar, we all went back to my friend's house (creepy guy excluded).  At 3:30 am, the creepy guy calls!  I don't answer, but he calls right back.  The cute guy makes fun of me because I told him that I gave that guy the wrong number.  My friend and him make me pick up the phone.  I do and I just spend the whole time trying to get off the phone with him.  I even hand the phone off to the cute guy and to my friend.


Well, last night at 1:00 am, my phone rings and it's him.  I don't pick it up and immediately it starts ringing again.  After 10 minutes, he calls again.  I don't know how many more times he called because I shut my phone off.  I use my phone as an alarm clock because i don't have a clock in my room, so this meant getting up and taking the one out of my brother's room.


Ewwwwww!  WTF?  What would make him think it is okay to call me so late?  And multiple times?  He didn't even leave a message!


I really have to stop giving my number out to guys I'm not interested in.  Usually it is okay; they either don't call anyway or call once, leave a message, and give up.  But, every once in a while, this kind of thing happens.  The reason I do it is that when I am out, I am just having fun, not thinking ahead.  Sure, the guy is fun to talk to now, but will he be fun to talk to over a quiet dinner?  Would I EVER choose to hang out with him over hanging out with my friends?  Would I ever invite him out with me and my friends?  The answer to all of these questions would have been no.  I wish I had just told him this to begin with; that I had fun talking to him, but I really don't see us hanging out again. 



-- Edited by Andrea Julia at 08:37, 2005-02-28

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Ick! Good luck with him, he sounds way out there!

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Do you think maybe he was drunk and thus disregarded the fact that it was late and inappropriate to call?

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That is so creepy. Hopefully he gets the hint. But on a happier note, did you give your # to the cute guy?

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"Do you think maybe he was drunk and thus disregarded the fact that it was late and inappropriate to call?"

I thought that the first night.  I mean, he had just seen me an hour ago, so it was quite possible that I would still be up. 


He could have been drunk last night too though.  You're right.  However, when I am drunk, I still know when is a potentially inappropriate time to call someone.  Also, what kind of job does he have where he can go out and get drunk on Sunday night?


And Kel...yes, I gave the cute guy my number!  I hope he calls, but I feel really calm about it.  I had a lot of fun on Saturday night either way.  I don't feel like he got to know the real me though so I won't be too insulted if he doesn't call.  He got to meet the tipsy, loud, slightly horny me.



-- Edited by Andrea Julia at 12:13, 2005-02-28

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Haha, that is creepy.  Im surprised, well not really, that he couldn't get the hint.  I bet since you answered that one time that it opened the gateway to hell!!  He'll probably call again.  And again.  and again.... LOL!  Good luck! 


So... will you hang out w/the cute one again?



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Eww! Gross! I feel for ya, honey. I went out with a guy Sat. night I was NOT interested in, just because I didn't want to say no. He attempted to accost me with his lips and tried to play boyfriend/girlfriend with me on Sunday night. I used some very bad-karma-inducing passive/aggressive behavior and I think he got the hint. Luckily, I feel like an ass. Sigh. Again.


I hope he gets the hint and stops calling. I suppose you could always block his number, right? On the bright side, the cute guy knows other guys are interested in you now and that's always a plus.



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I hate to sound like an old married woman, but if some creepy guy called me in the middle of the night I would answer & chew him out to the extent that he would never call me again. But maybe it's just me!!! CREEPY!!!!!


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"I hate to sound like an old married woman, but if some creepy guy called me in the middle of the night I would answer & chew him out to the extent that he would never call me again. But maybe it's just me!!! CREEPY!!!!! "

That would probably be the smartest thing to do and may have nipped it in the bud, but the last thing I wanted to do was talk to this guy at 1 in the morning.  I was half asleep and didn't want to deal with someone who had the audacity to call 3 consecutive times at 1 a.m on a Sunday night (Monday morning).  Like seriously, just hanging up and redialing my number.  So weird.  And he didn't even leave a message or try to call back at a normal time the next day (not that it would have made a difference in how I feel).  I don't know if he tried to late-night call me again last night because I shut my phone off just in case.  I probably will do that again tonight.


Oh.  And I just found out that on Saturday night he had called a third time AFTER we had already talked to him.  I was in the other room and my other friend picked it up and talked to him.


And of course, the cute guy didn't call.  Just the creepy guy, but that was a given.


 



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