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Thanks in advance for your guys help...

We are having a bachelorette party/personal shower for my sis-in-law this saturday night at a hotel....so, what do I get her?...she is 28 and has two kids from her fiancees previous marriage...and oh yeah..she is pregnant(hence we are not going to a bar....)

so, what do you buy someone for a personal shower?  also, what should I wear?

Thanks