Ok- last night I won an ebay auction for a Shirin Guild cashmere cardigan. I have been looking for a while for something like this and was really excited to see it. It was a British auction, so I waited until 4 am to place my bid at the last second. Lo and behold- I won for 32 pounds (which is a steal since the buy it now price was 195 GBP.) However, as I went to pay, she said that it was ruined by water in a house move 3 days ago so she couldn't go through with the sell. I am really upset now, and can't shake the feeling that she's lying to me because she doesn't want to sell it to me for that cheap (it's probably worth $400 or more and I got it for $60.) I looked at her other feedback (100% positive) and everything sold for 100 GPB or more and she put reserves on everything. It is not my fault that it sold for so cheap (she started the auction at 25 GBP and it went for 32- no reserve) and I want this sweater for this price. I asked what the damages were, to further guage the situation. That was just a few hours ago, so no reply yet. I guess my question is, is she legally obligated to sell me this sweater? She has a store, so its not like she only had one that was her personal sweater. I was watching the same sweater in a gray color and it sold for around $180 which was more than I wanted to pay for a sweater I haven't seen yet. I know she could be being truthful, but my gut tells me that I won it for wayyyy less than I should have and she didn't like it. What should I do in this situation?
she is legally obligated to sell it to you, and if it is true that the sweater is ruined she should've pulled the auction or taken some similar sort of measure instead of waiting until after it had been purchased.
that being said it's kind of tricky b/c you can threaten her, but at the same time (assuming your theory is correct) she could also destroy the sweater and send the destroyed one to you. i would email ebay's customer service and see what they say.
You'll know if she was lying if she "just happens" to get another one and put it up on ebay a couple of days later. I mean how else is she going to sell it, if she really didn't get the price she wanted for it.
Well, she has a brick and mortar store- so she could just sell it there. That is what I'm worried about, espec. since she's in England so I would never ever find out.
I think she is probably screwing you over, but I don't know how much you can actually do about it. If you leave her bad feedback, then she will leave you bad feedback.
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I don’t want no part of your tight-ass country-club, you freak bitch!
I guess you can ask her if she has any more since she just sold that other one at the same time or you could try emailing that winner and see if she's pulling the same crap with them. At least you'd have something you could prove if theirs wasn't ruined and yours was.
quote: Originally posted by: lsubatgirl "I guess you can ask her if she has any more since she just sold that other one at the same time.."
I think this sounds like a good idea. Just say that you really want the sweater and if this particular item was damaged 3 days ago, she should have ended the auction and that you don't want your money back if she has other sweaters for sale. Good luck!
that sucks. like everyone said, why didn't she end the auction 3 days ago if that's when the sweater was supposedly ruined? It really does sound like she's lying.
Since you won the auction, she is completely obligated to sell you the sweater. She can't just make up some excuse and say oops, sorry, and that's that. no, that does not fly on eBay. because the auction was a legal transaction between you two, and because the "error" (really, a lie, but you shouldn't and don't need to say that) was completely hers (not ending the auction immediately after the item was "ruined"), you should politely insist that she send you a similar sweater or another identical item that you want, for the price that you bid & won at.
She is absolutely legally obligated to sell the sweater to you. Whether she'll actually be able to get away with not selling it to you, I'm not sure. This is one of those lame situations where the person on the other side is just not being a cool ebayer.
I had a problem with an ebayer recently and I emailed ebay thru the help section to see what I could do. They emailed me back right away with very helpful suggestions and even guided me through all the steps. I recommend emailing ebay and telling them exactly what happened (including the fact that you think she's lying) and see what they say.
I agree with the other girls, sounds like she under sold it but she is technically responsible for selling it to you. Seems fishy that the auction was not pulled if something happened to it.