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Chanel

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Well the big wedding day is tommorow and eveything is going well so far. Although I took it for granted that my dad would walk me down the asile. I found out a few days ago he is not really wanting to do it. # .1 He told me I should ask him a while back. Yes I should have that is my fault, but what is bothing me is # 2 that he felt like after we found out I was pregnant we should hurrried up and got married. We was already planning to get married before I got pregnant and already had the wedding in to works. I mean we are getting married b/c we want to and love each other not b/c Iam pregnant. The preacher still agreeed to marry us even we we told him about the baby. My Grandpa said he would walk me down the asile but its just not the samecry

-- Edited by small fry at 07:45, 2008-01-07

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Chanel

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That sucks. I don't really have any good advice or comforting words but just try to focus on the happiness of the occasion. If your dad doesn't want to be a part of it for stupid reasons, so be it. It's really his loss.

On the bright side, you're in love, you have a little one on the way, and you're about to marry a great guy, right? That's all that really matters. Good luck tomorrow!

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Your dad is punishing you for making a choice he doesn't like. That's really not a good way to act. And I'm sorry he hurt you. He's wrong. I don't think he's going to change though. People who feel entitled to hurt other people based on something like that - an individual choice - tend to just be hard to deal with and then they die. It's more sad in the end for them. But that doesn't mean it's easy to deal with them. Maybe jsut find other people who won't treat you like that and keep them in your life, and try to limit your time with your dad as much as you can.

And congratulations on your wedding. Hope the big day was everything you wanted.

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I think your dad will really regret it if he doesn't walk you down the aisle (not to mention looking like a butthead in front of your guests). I would try to explain to him much this means to you and that you didn't ask sooner because you though it was understood. When I got married, I don't think I officially asked my dad, he just knew thats what he was supposed do.

Congrats on the wedding!! I want to see pics.

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Mandy wrote:

I think your dad will really regret it if he doesn't walk you down the aisle (not to mention looking like a butthead in front of your guests). I would try to explain to him much this means to you and that you didn't ask sooner because you though it was understood. When I got married, I don't think I officially asked my dad, he just knew thats what he was supposed do.

Congrats on the wedding!! I want to see pics.







ITA..
I can't wait to see pics!!!

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I'm sorry, hopefully he'll come around and make the right decision.

Congrats!!

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It sucks that your dad is acting the way he is but tomorrow is your big day, don't let him get you down. Good luck on your big day and take lots of pictures b/c we want to see.

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Try not to get too upset over this. It's not good on the baby or on you. It's going to be one of the greatest days of your life. Think positive about having your Grandfather there to walk you down the aisle. My grandfather wasn't even alive to see me marry. Enjoy your day! Be sure to post pictures. Congratulations!!

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Chanel

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Ladies thanks for letting me share this with you . Bluebirdie you are so right on what you said. bluebirdie wrote: On the bright side, you're in love, you have a little one on the way, and you're about to marry a great guy, right? That's all that really matters. Good luck tomorrow!

Good news he decide to come and walk me down the asile and it made the day more perfect. We had a simple wedding but it turned really nice and here are some pics

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grooms cake

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-- Edited by small fry at 08:29, 2008-01-07

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Congratulations! You looked so beautiful and your new husband looks so moved and happy!

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Congratulations!  You look very pretty and I love the cakes!

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Hermes

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Congratulations - you look so happy, and I'm so glad your dad changed his mind!

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Kate Spade

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You look beautiful! The church you were married in reminds me of the church I grew up in!

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Congrats!! You looked great!

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Congratulations!  I'm glad things turned out great for your wedding.

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Chanel

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congrats! i LOVE the groom's cake! we don't do that here (maybe it is only a southern thing?) so i love when i see them!

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Congratulations! You looked great!

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Chanel

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congratulations!

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Is red a pagan/wiccan thing? I must say that I loved your dress. I'm Indian, and Indian brides always wear red, so it just seemed natural to me. Congratulations!

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Awww..how cute! Congrats!

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