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Teresa


Kate Spade

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Sooo...there is a personal trainer at the gym I go to and he instructs the cycling class I attend twice a week. He is SUCH a nice guy.  Seriously, he is so kind.  Anyway, there has been major flirtation for weeks now, and I don't know how to take it to the next level.  I'm trying to rid my old habits of sleeping with guys and being "naughty", so I want to play this right.  How do I let him know I'm interested, without outright saying it?

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you could stay late after a class to ask him a question about something related to cycling. that gives him a window to get your number or ask you out. you could also invite him to a group thing; i.e., "hey, i'm having a party/my friends are going to....."



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HeatherLynn


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Maybe ask him to go get a smoothie (if your gym has those) with you. Sometimes I think being forward works best because then you know he's interested or not interested with out all the drama of wondering. You could always invite him to get coffee, but I'm thinking personal trainers probably don't drink too much of that. Good luck!

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I agree with heatherlynn,I would be direct with him.good luck.

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Teresa


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eek, okay. thanks girls. this is waaaay too hard

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he's married. good god.

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