ITA! We would NEVER question your decision, b/c we are all w/you 100%! I just hate that you have to go thru this. You are def. going to be in my thoughts and prayers, and we are here if you need us. You are such a strong WOMAN, you'll get thru this just fine.
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D, I admire your strength and your intelligence and your sanity in all of this. I just want you to add me to the list of people here who support you and love you.
You are still you no matter what and we are with you all the way.
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"Until you spread your wings, you'll have no idea how far you can fly".
Oh D, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Please stay strong because I know that you will make it through this. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
D, I can't imagine how hard this was for you, and you have my unending admiration for how bravely you've handled all these troubles. There's no question in my mind that you're making the right decision, and I'll be sending you all the good healing vibes I can muster over the next few months!
i can't even begin to know how this is for you or how you feel, but whatever your feelings are, they are normal. there's no right or wrong feelings for this. and while it's "just" a body part, it's so much more than that and it is a loss which you're allowed to grieve. do what you need to do and don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. the way you dealt with this in the past worked (even if it didn't always feel that way) because you inspired so many of us (even if that's a role you didn't choose). you are so much stronger than this and you will get through it. if you need anything let us know.
take care of you.
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"i tell you one lesson I learned
If you want to be something in life, You ain't gonna get it unless, You give a little bit of sacrifice, Oohh, sometimes before you smile you got to cry.." -The Roots
I don't know what to say or what to add that all these other lovely ladies haven't already said so eloquently. I think you're definitely doing the right thing here (or at least what I think I'd do in that same situation) and I really admire how strong you are and have been throughout this whole long, awful ordeal.
I know you rationally know that you're still the same even without your ovaries, but I'm sure that doesn't make the decision any easier to make or deal with. Anyway, we're here for you and we're all pulling for you and cheering you on. You're going to get through this with grace and class and style, just as you have before. Let us know if we can do anything to help you out. Hugs to you.
I'm so sorry you have had to go through all of this. You really are a strong woman and I think you've made the best decisions possible in situations where there are no perfect win-win outcomes. Stay strong - sending good wishes your way!
I really can't imagine going through what you've been going through this year. You really have been and continue to be inspirational. And no one, including yourself, should think of you as less than a woman and you are an incredibly strong one, at that.
D, your strength and courage inspires me to keep my chin up whenever I think I'm having a bad day. You've done your homework and made the best decision for you. I think you are a beautiful human being and I am sending positive thoughts and energy to you and your hubby.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through all this, but it sounds like you're making the right decision and handling it with strength and grace. We're all thinking of you!
D, I agree with what has already been said, it's your heart that defines who you are as a woman and person and you will always have that. Just remember that we are here for you! I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh D, I don't even know what else to say that hasn't already been said. You made the best decision for yourself and that's all that matters. I am continually amazed at what a strong, beautiful, brave woman you are. You are truly an inspiration. We are here for you all the way. I know after this, things will be looking way up for you. Hang in there honey - you'll be in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry that you have to go through this on top of everything else. But you're so incredibly sensible and strong and you'll be fine! We're all here for you.