I'm leaving my husband of nearly two years (lived together for seven). He's a great guy, but I think i've fallen out of love. I feel like a selfish asshole.
I'm sorry to hear that. If you've fallen out of love with him, then you'd be doing a disservice to you both if you were to stay in the relationship, so this is not a selfish thing.
I'm so sorry. I dont' think you're selfish. relationships are complicated and no one else ever really understands what's going on except you two. Good luck with everything sweetie... {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
you are not a selfish asshole. if you think that, after some time, you might fall back in love, then do whatever it takes. that way, if it doesn't work out ultimately, you will know that you tried your best to make it work.
you are responsible for your own happiness, no one else's
__________________
"I paid off a poker debt with sexual favors, and I fell in love. It's so romantic. It's romance." - Pamela Anderson
I'm sorry to hear that, but once you get through the hard parts, it'll be for the best. You can't help who you love/don't love, so it's not a selfish decision at all.