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Marc Jacobs

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I am so pissed, he did it this morning on valentines day!


He didn't even do it in person he calls me up this morning while I am getting ready for school and tell sme he just no longer wants to be with me. He would not give me any reasons why.


 As if that was not bad enough he is now demanding I give him back the pearl earrings he gave me for my b-day last month!


I am just so pissed and steamed right now!


This was after he tells me he loves me(he said it first) and he was even talking about marrying me in the near future. Like what the f**K!!!


Sorry,I just neeeded to vent.



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OMG!!!!  I'm so sorry.  what an ass!!  1. who breaks up on valentines day?  2. you don't need to give those earrings back, they were a gift.  He is clearly a jerk and you are much better off without him.

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What an asshole!!! Don't give him back those earrings. They aren't his anymore, they're yours. Tell him to go screw himself. And wear them with pride from now on! What a jerk!!

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  What a JERK!!!  I'm so sorry!

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I wanted to join the jerk boat. Screw him! (figuratively of course)

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blubirde wrote:

What an asshole!!! Don't give him back those earrings. They aren't his anymore, they're yours. Tell him to go screw himself. And wear them with pride from now on! What a jerk!!

Ditto!  Keep the earrings--they're yours now.


I hope you find a good way to salvage your V-Day.  That sucks! 



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wtf? what a douchebag. keep those earrings....no backsies!

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A$$hole! Now that you think about it.. Were their any clues that you may have been missing?

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relrel wrote:

wtf? what a douchebag. keep those earrings....no backsies!
my thoughts exactly! How DARE he demand that you give back a birthday gift? Disgusting!

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those are your earrings--there is no way you should ever give them back. 


i have heard about a weird breed of men who try to break up right before or on v-day, because they have some intense irrational fear of the intimacy that the holiday demands.  maybe you found one.  anyway, i am sorry. 



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JoceyBaby23 wrote:


A$$hole! Now that you think about it.. Were their any clues that you may have been missing?


        thinking back on it there don't seem to be any clues to his being an a**hole.


        There were how ever things that I just learned about him last month that are very disturbing. I've been kinda freaked out and starting to think he is mentally unstable. He confessed to me last month that he has an obbsession with fire and is actually a pyromaniac.


Ontop of this he has been diagnosed with a severe socal anxietydisorder and agoraphobia (basically a fear of the outside world).


I've been rethinking our relationship and being involved with him anyway.I guess he saved me the trouble of deciding if I wanted to deal with his massive problems or not.


Don't worry girls I have no intention  of giving him back the earrings.As far as I see it they were a gift and they are mine now!


Thank you all for your support!



-- Edited by cat at 14:23, 2006-02-14

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what a total jackass.


just say the word and you've got a team of STers ready to uhh "take care of the situation" if you know what i mean.


you're right, sounds like he saved you the trouble of doing it yourself.


don't give him the earrings, and don't even waste your time talking to him.  you're out!



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Hermione wrote:

 just say the word and you've got a team of STers ready to uhh "take care of the situation" if you know what i mean.
im ready...

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relrel wrote:

Hermione wrote:  just say the word and you've got a team of STers ready to uhh "take care of the situation" if you know what i mean. im ready...
ha!!! that's good.

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He's not only an a**hole, but he's a coward as well! I got dumped my ex over the phone last summer, so I can relate to how you're feeling. You're better off without him, so good riddance!

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I just wanted to join in on the jerk parade - what a friggin creep!  I can't believe he was crappy enough to a) do it on V-Day and b) ask for the earrings back - how tacky!  Definitely sounds like you're better off.

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I'm sorry!  What kind of a**hole dumps his gf on Valentine's Day?!  Ugh!  At least you're rid of him!  *hug*

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relrel wrote:
Hermione wrote:
 just say the word and you've got a team of STers ready to uhh "take care of the situation" if you know what i mean.
im ready...


I'm in - what a WEENIE!!!!!!!!

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Keep the earrings...he's a jerk!

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haha if there is one thing I remember from my blaw class for becker (cpa exam) it was if you get a gift on a holiday or birthday then it is yours and you don't have to give it back.  something about a gift vs. a loan.  i dunno. he sucks and I'm sorry your v-day is not going so well.  things will get better.

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