I'm going to a party in a couple weeks where it is likely I will encounter my ex and his new girlfriend. While I'd like to say I'm mature enough not to care, I'm not, and I want to look hot. Soo, what are some fun "I'm not trying too hard but still look amazing" outfit suggestions? I was thinking jeans b/c I have a feeling the party is going to be rather casual.
I think the second top Collette posted is perfect for your sneaky purposes - it will show off your body without looking like you are trying to stand out, and since there's no flash or beading or anything, it won't look like you want attention. Just be really, really careful with the fit. Good luck - make him hurt! (I was just in this situation last weekend, and I DIDN"T KNOW AHEAD OF TIME so at least you have some warning).