STYLETHREAD -- LET'S TALK SHOP!

Ok, I know I asked this question the other day, about what I should wear out to some bars Friday night with my guy friend i haven't seen in a long time.  I want to look really cute and super trendy, but not trying too hard.  I know lynnie suggested a off the shoulder sweater, which I love... but the only problem is, I look horrible iin those, i think it throws off my body proportions or something.  So if anyone could give me some more ideas that would be great!  Im going to buy a top tomorrow afternoon, and would like to go to the mall with a plan :)  Here are the jeans ill be wearing... Ill need ideas on:

1. Top, 1st priority

2. Jewelery

3. Shoes, but I think im wearing black stilletos.