STYLETHREAD -- LET'S TALK SHOP!

fashionista L · Coach

Obnoxious EX

lsubatgirl · Gucci

I don't really know what to say other than if its bugging you quit talking with him. Especially if you are seeing someone else there is no need to hang on to old flames.

I think he tried guilting you back with the whole counselor/antidepressants thing and since you didn't bite and come back he's trying the jealousy thing of him being with other girls and going to ya'lls special places hoping you'll think back and want to go back to him. Just my opinion

NCshopper · Hermes

Yup, I think you and lsu are both right--you need to quit talking to him. There's really no point. At least I can't see any. He's not adding anything positive to your life and from what you've told us in the past he treated you horribly. This person doesn't seem like he's good for you at all. And to be honest, the whole counseling and anti-depressant thing seems like a big fat guilt trip to me. He very well may be going through that, but the point is that it is not your fault and it is not your responsibility to deal with that. That's all him.

I think he's clearly just trying to get a reaction out of you to prove to himself that you still care or whatever. I think the sooner you break off contact with him, the better.

Also, him trying to run you off the road is not okay. It is not normal. I'd personally be worried about your safety. I remember you saying he's been violent in the past. I would certainly be looking into reporting this to the police and documenting this type of behavior because it's completely unacceptable.

Dizzy · Marc Jacobs

He tried to run you off the road? Talking to him after that is still an option? Really? Delete him from your cell phone and don't look back.

-- Edited by Dizzy at 01:46, 2005-12-22

JoceyBaby23 · Gucci

Everyone is right. Stop talking to him immediately. He is playing mind games with you and you are falling for it!

Stay strong and stay away from him!

member · Hermes

Dizzy wrote:

He tried to run you off the road? Talking to him after that is still an option? Really? Delete him from your cell phone and don't look back.-- Edited by Dizzy at 01:46, 2005-12-22

I agree w/Dizzy - after he tried to run you off the road, that'd be it for me. He's obviously dangerous and you should stay away. You have a new guy and you need to shut the book on this chapter in your life. He brings you nothing good, so move on.

scarlett · Marc Jacobs

I agree with the other ladies: this guy is no good for you and obviously dangerous, so it's time to cut off all contact. Any contact you have with him just gives him opportunities to hurt you, emotionally and physically. Who knows how far he would push it if given the chance? Trying to run you off the road is insane, and someone who does that does not deserve one moment of your time or consideration. I strongly urge you to speak with the police about him.