I think "If It Was You" is a million miles ahead of "So Jealous"...I hear the songs from "So Jealous" all the time (my co-worker listens to indie radio and T&S are one of the only acts on the station I really like) and they seem to me like they want to re-create the musical greatness of "If It Was You". I do like "Walking With The Ghost", but the others aren't the best. But IMO T&S at their worst is still infinitely better than most artists at their best!
I think I love every song on "If It Was You", but most importantly..."Monday, Monday, Monday" and "Not Tonight" are my favorites.