I'm sitting here with a black eye and a swollen nose and a cut up arm thanks to an immature, small-minded asshole.
Last night, the bf and I went to a Super Bowl party and two of our so-called 'friends' invited themselves along (brother and sister, I'll call them S and J, who I'm positive share a brain). They have been super nasty to me for the past, oh...year or so...they're assholes. Anyway, I'm not sure why the bf insists on letting them hang around. I guess he's too nice sometimes. Every time these two are around they make nasty comments to me and act hateful. I've been warning the bf about them for a while and he just didn't want to listen.
Well, last night after the game (I was the DD, so I was completely sober btw...bf was, um, not so sober), J decided to act like a complete ass to me and I had had enough, so I told him to shut up and stop it. So, he and S proceed to start screaming at me, calling me an f-ing c***, and f-ing bitch and an f-ing slut, repeatedly and saying that my bf doesn't care about me and he doesn't want me, that I'm a slut and cheating on my bf and generally sayiing the most hateful, untrue things I've ever had said to me. The bf, in the meantime, was too drunk to even do anything except stand there with his mouth gaping open.
Long story short, this whole thing escalates to S hitting me in the face b/c I told her and her brother that I'm sick of how they've been acting and that they are no longer welcome in my house or my life and to get away from me. I was gushing blood from my face and I had to drive myself home with my drunk bf in the passenger seat telling me over and over again that he loves me, but completely unable to comprehend anything else. So awful.
The only thing that makes me feel better about the whole thing is that the bf and I left those assholes stuck at the party at 2 am and who knows how they are going to get back home. Haha. Losers.
OMG, sweetie! How awful. I am so sorry you're battered what a bizarre situation. Well, there's two positives to focus on right now... #1 your face will heal. #2 those assholes will never be in your life again. See? there's always a silver lining to every cloud
I love that they got left there
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Ugh, how horrible! What a terrible thing to have to deal with. Well now you have an excuse to never hang out with S and J again. Hope your wounds get better quickly!
I am sorry you had a Sh**ty night, at least they will be out of your life.Just put lots of ice on your face and if the swelling does not go down, or gets painful go the doctor. Ive been hit before(I box) and it is no fun. Just get some rest.
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OMG, I'm so sorry about what happened to you. I wish you a speedy recovery & am utterly glad you told them off & left them @ the party. Those losers better not try to worm their way back into your lives.
quote: Originally posted by: dc I wonder if it's too late to press charges? It would really serve them right. "
Thanks for all of your well wishes, ladies. I did think about pressing charges. My bf's brother is a cop and he suggested that, too, after we talked to him last night. The bf's dad (who came over to our house to make sure that we were okay) also said that we should consider pressing charges. S and J did say that they were going to come over to the house whenever they feel like it b/c my bf is friends with them (so they think), but he's going to tell them that they better not ever set foot in this house again. If they do, we'll call the cops.
oh my god! I'm so sorry that that happenede to you. That is totally INSANE that someone would lay their hands on you for ANY reason. You do not deserve it. I hope you press charges because that is totally unacceptable behavior. And I hope your bf cuts them off completely.
THat's awful, Nylabelle. What trashy people! Well, at least your bruises will heal, but their friendship with your boyfriend probably never will. I hope you never have to deal with them again!