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I really like Naples which isn't far from Ft. Myers.  We stayed at the Ritz Carlton which was wonderful and right on the beach.  I also have stayed on Sanibel Island at the Sanibel Harbour Resort and Spa  (also right on the beach) and it was really nice and would be perfect for a family.  Let us know where you end up staying.

collegegirl5858 wrote:

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whatever you do DONT stay at South Seas resort (captiva)

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Why???

I really recommend staying at the Sanibel Moorings.  The beaches are generally quiet.  http://sanibelmoorings.com/  It's all condos, so it's great when you have a family and don't want to eat every meal in a restaurant.  My family has been vacationing there for the past twenty years and we've never had any problems.  Not only do you have the beach right outside your condo, but there are two pools.  The condos are divided between the beach side and across the street on the canal side (if you have or rent a boat).  Also, I highly recommend going to Capitva to eat at the Key Lime Bistro.  (get the grouper sandwich and a slice of key lime pie. YUM)   

I've never been that the areas you are looking at, but this article was on cnn.com.

(Southern Living) -- Under the glow of a southwest Florida sun, sleek sailboats dance on turquoise seas. With every gentle lapping of the warm blue water on Captiva, a whispered tinkling sound settles around your bare feet. It's the murmur of the Gulf of Mexico tumbling pink, orange, red, gray and blue shells on the ivory sand.

At home at South Seas

Perched at the end of the road on Captiva, the 330-acre South Seas Island Resort lures guests with natural beauty. A nature preserve covers more than half the property that's tucked between 2.5 miles of beach and the fish-rich bay of Pine Island Sound.

Arriving here on a Saturday, our car packed with groceries for the week, we knew we'd rely on other transportation -- walking, sailing, motorboating or riding the resort's blue trolleys into the village. We opted to stay in the Marina Villas. These two-bedroom units, with full kitchens, face the harbor and sailing school where we watched the yachts come and go. Other lodging choices include beachfront condos or villas, cottages or even large guest rooms near the pool complex.

Although we planned plenty of downtime at the beach and the pools, we filled our days with activity. Options included golfing on the resort's new emerald-hued executive course, parasailing above the Gulf, kayaking, tennis and Steve and Doris Colgate's Offshore Sailing School.

Setting sail

The resort offers plenty to fill a week, but we couldn't resist the sailing school. You see, just a few years ago, I married a man with a sailboat. While I grew up on the water, I generally use a paddle or a motor to get around. This is the best place I've found to learn how to harness the wind. The Offshore Sailing School maintains its headquarters nearby in Fort Myers and runs its largest selection of classes out of Yacht Harbor at South Seas.

I signed up for Learn to Sail and spent five days tackling an entirely new language where port and starboard replace good old left and right. The magic started the first afternoon, when my instructor turned off the motor. I took the tiller and listened as the wind and the waves pushed our swift Colgate 26. The boat responded to my hand like a well-trained horse.

Each day I gained confidence. One day, my instructor made sure I could handle a solo man-overboard drill. Another time, I took the helm and sailed "close to the wind" (tight sails with no luffing) while the craft heeled onto its edge. As the boom splashed deep into the water and the spray hit my face, I found a thrill better than any theme park ride.

My husband's days were much calmer. Enrolled in the Bareboat Cruising Preparation course, he wanted a certification to charter a big sailboat for a future Caribbean vacation. His group set off in a lovely 44-foot Hunter, with a gorgeous mahogany cabin, a kitchen and four staterooms. By the end of the week, he felt he could handle a boat that could actually cross the ocean. If we sail around the world (a big if), I can be a capable first mate now.

Island-hopping

If sailing is not your idea of a vacation, take some off-island side trips. One morning we met Capt. Mike Fuery for a journey aboard his boat. We motored past North Captiva Island beyond the resort, where we could see a new pass cut to the bay by Hurricane Charley. Our destination was a slip of privately owned paradise called Cabbage Key.

There, two generations of the Wells family run the compound featuring the Cabbage Key Inn. The inn's restaurant serves up some of the most famous food on the West Florida Coast. Locals say the burgers here inspired Jimmy Buffett's "Cheeseburger in Paradise." Come for breakfast, lunch or dinner, as well as to drink in the Dollar Bill Bar, wallpapered with autographed dollars. Be sure to add your John Hancock to the likes of John F. Kennedy, Jr. and Jimmy Carter. Click for a Captiva dining guide

We left after lunch to head to the mecca for shellers: the southern tip of Cayo Costa State Park. The shells are so deep on this undeveloped island's beach, you'll want to wear shoes for comfort. Captain Mike backed his boat into knee-deep water where he helped us spy shells. We learned to look on the sand at the high tide line, as well as in the water where a shallow ledge just offshore catches washed-up shells.

I searched for the junonia -- the coveted spotted specimen found on these islands -- to no avail. But in an hour I pocketed 16 lettered olives, a half-dozen angel wings, shark eyes, cockles and true tulips.

An hour passed before I knew it. I was mesmerized by the sound of waves softly rolling shells together -- what I think of as surf chimes. On this wind-tossed beach I found a treasure better than any pirates ever discovered. I found the perfect vacation.